Find a rich husband and make it the easy way. This blog is generally intended to bring out the entrepreneur in a lady. This post may teeter on bringing the lady part out of the entrepreneur. Never forget that you are both! This article is a little unique in that I will be talking to women who have decided that rather than excel in building their own business and doing it all from scratch on their own, would rather do it the old fashioned way, - by Marrying a Millionaire!
Its okay, You are perfectly safe here at Entrepreneur Lady, because we do not get on our high horse and judge, we look at our personalities, abilities and make an honest and level headed decision on how we are to achieve success.
If you believe that you need a man to help you out and make life easier, then you just may be better off marrying rich than denying who you are. Just keep in mind that this is not always the easy way of achieving wealth. It can be difficult being involved with a man who has power, and often times men with power can be difficult to live with. But, having pondered starting your own business and marrying a wealthy man for some time and you keep thinking that your best bet is to marry rich, then this article is for you.
It is not hard to get men interested, and therefore it is not difficult to get them to marry you. When you see women clinging to men for years, wanting a proposal and never getting it, this is because the woman did not play her cards right. If you are one of those women you have some learning to do. If a poor guy will throw you around, a man of wealth will certainly do it too. Its all about how you present yourself and the ground rules you set early on.
Its just as easy to hook a rich man as it is to get hooked by a poor one.
The rule of thumb is this. Never have sex with a man on the first date. I don't care how modern you are and how much you think it should be okay. In a man's mind you have proven yourself to be cheap by doing this. Please don't sleep with a man and say, "I don't usually do this, but this is one "special" time." Men laugh inside when women say things like that because they have heard it with every floozy they have had a one night stand with. Its as corny as a man passionately taking your clothes off and whispering, "don't worry, I respect you." Doesn't that have a cheesy red flag ring to it? Well, the only way of proving to a man that you are not just another hooker putting out with any man she meets and hoping one of them will eventually marry her, is to show him that you are different. Actions speak louder than words. Never have sex on the first date, and hold out as long as possible. If you have been dating a man for three months and you are having a great time getting to know him and have a lot in common with him things should work out well. If you are not doing much with the guy except fooling around and saying "no" when it gets too close, and the guy suddenly dumps you, then its a good thing you did not give in because he only wanted one thing anyway. A quality man who may lead to something serious will make an effort to entertain you by taking you to a variety of places for dates, and your conversations should be fun, and stimulating.
The early dating days are where you show him your morale. Men want a woman with high standards and high morals. At least the ones who are worth marrying do. When a man marries a woman he wants something special, not something that has been on her back with every guy in town.
The more money he has the more he will demand that his woman be something special.
How long should you wait? As long as possible. Some women don't have sex with men they are not married to, and others have to be with a man for several months, but generally there is no such thing as waiting too long. If you have been with a guy for six weeks or three months and he stops calling, don't think that if you would have slept with him it would have been all different. That simply means he was only looking for a piece of ass and you showed him that you are not it. He will carouse around and find other women to use. Its no loss and a lot better to get shed of him that way than to be used by him.
Think back to the 1950s and even before that time. I guarantee you there were not so many women "trying" to get men to marry them. There were nowhere near as many single moms or any of the relationship problems of today. This is because women knew not to be easy. My old fashioned mother did not teach me much but I remember she stressing that once you sleep with a man they don't like you anymore and will think you are bad. I never slept with men and have never suffered the fate of my friends who did. I did not exactly wait until I was married either, but I waited a good couple of months before I decided a relationship was strong enough and I was interested enough to become physically involved. I have personally always had men proposing to me, and falling in love. I attribute my strong level of importance on high standards to be a great part of this. Men have respected, and valued me early on in a relationship.
When a man feels that he has worked hard for your affection he values it. when your emotions and your body come easy, he will not see value it them. This is the way men innately are. I know all the feminists are fuming and saying, "that's not right, a guy should not be like that." But, men are like that and always will be. A smart woman will look at reality and make the facts work in her favor.
If you want to win and avoid all the heart ache that comes to women who think that they are going to win a guy through sex, do not fall into the same trap that most women fall into, avoid hanky panky.
Hookers who will fall down on their backs and deliver mind blowing sex are a dime a dozen. A classy lady who picks and chooses who is worth her time is most definitely a rarity these days. The guy would rather have the rarity, trust me.
I give advice to women every day and I consistently tell them not to give in. I tell them to be fun, light hearted and sweet, and not to have sex with their dates. The ones who follow my advice gain control, and the ones who give in to the guy and decide to ignore this old fashioned yet sound advice, begin having regrets within hours to days after they have lost control on their date.
When women have intercourse with men they often feel closer to their guy, and they can leave the date with their hearts dancing, with the high expectation of what excitement is coming next, but a man will often leave a date in which he has gotten what he wanted with a negative feeling. He will wonder what this women is now expecting of him, and some of the negative feelings that he may have suppressed about you will now materialize.
I have heard on more than one occasion a guy meets this woman who is beautiful, flirtatious and exciting, and the guy whole heartedly pursues the girl and has sex with her within the first three dates. After the guy climaxes, yes that soon, he looks at the girl and thinks, "she really is not that pretty". Then he thinks, "what kind of girl would do this with a guy she hardly knows?" Then he thinks, "I better split." This is a common scenario, so please do not become a victim. Those old fashioned rules that smart women have followed for years were put in place for a reason and no amount of high talking feminism will change it.
Something interesting I heard years ago. -Men love hunting. They will go out at strange hours, in physically uncomfortable situations to hunt an animal. Once they have caught the animal, they will sit with it and have their picture taken with it, and will parade it around like a trophy. They will talk endlessly about their catch with pride. Now, if a Moose were to wander to a man's front door and drop dead, do you think for a minute that a man will want his picture taken with it, and brag about it? No! he will just say lets get rid of this thing!
You want to be the beautiful and evasive gazelle the man is hunting, not the dead moose he has to get rid of.
A woman who is hard to get will make a man glow with pride after he has finally "caught" her. He will talk about her with a dancing heart, and present her with pride. A woman who gives herself up becomes the dead moose who the guy has to figure out how to get rid of.
Have you ever seen the young, teenage girl going to "hang out" at her boyfriend's house uninvited? Yes, eventually he will verbally dump her because her unannounced visits will make it hard for him to bring other girls around, and she will wonder why he does not just keep seeing her.
- Or the girl who constantly sends text messages and makes phone calls to her "boyfriend" with very little response outside of an occasional invite to his house, or to a movie and then his house? Real couples will have conversations. That means that a "date" consisting of watching a play, game, or movie is not "real" interaction. It is something he could be doing with his friends or by himself. Having you there is just for something to play with and then possibly score from at the end. Love will not happen when there is no real interaction between the two of you.
If you are sitting here counting on your fingers that you have been on ten dates with a guy and five of them consisted of sitting in a chair watching a movie, the three of them were sitting in a chair watching a basketball game, and two of them were dinner dates, then you have only been on two dates with this guy. You interacted with him for maybe four hours. That is not enough getting to know you for him to feel very much for you. It works differently for men. They take longer to fall in love, but once they do, they really fall hard.
To be more than a piece of flesh...
If you have hobbies, pursue them, if you don't have any then get some quick. Have you ever wondered how interesting you are? If someone is in a position to have a relationship with you they will have to be interested. What makes you more interesting than other women? It is important to have something you do if you want to marry a rich man.
For the most part rich men are busy and women who can not entertain themselves are often disappointed in them which results in- no marriage.
Poor men have time to lavish on you, but rich men will want you do be self sufficient. Don't cling or demand that they spend all their time on you. Once they see you are doing your own thing, they will be more likely to take a real interest in you as a person. Have hobbies or even business ventures you pursue. Women who run in marathons, take lessons in something, or engage in business ventures are much more interesting to talk to, and give men a much better feeling of security than women who do nothing but go to their job and go home and watch television.
How to meet rich men.
You must think of this as your business if you are really serious about marrying a rich man.
I talk to women who say they want a rich husband all the time, and when I ask them where they are going to meet them, they just say, "well, I went to a night club this Saturday."
Reality check- You are likely to meet the bottom of the barrel men at night clubs. Don't waste your time!
If going to a night club is the way you are going about dating, you probably need to work on those hobbies we were just talking about. You see, as I said, I talk to women about this all the time and I have noticed that women who do not know what to do with themselves go to night clubs.
Chances are you will not find a rich husband there.
If you do not play golf, you need to take lessons and take it seriously. Go to a country club after you are playing relatively well, and you will meet millionaires and billionaires. You should also learn how to play tennis. This is because the idle class all have tennis courts and many live on golf courses and have their own putting greens. To fit in, you should do as the rich do.
If you don't know how to ski, you need to learn now. By simply skiing, playing golf and tennis, you will automatically be traveling in the same circles that attract men with money.
Take golf lessons and practice on a regular basis. Before donning your argyle best and heading off to the country club, you should practice at the lower level courses. Looking like a clutz in a country club is not going to win you any admirers.
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Some of the most cleaver women have gone skiing by themselves and met rich business owners or even just doctors who have the day off and want to release stress. A woman who is out releasing stress in a physical activity can be so much more appealing than a girl who puts on a whore suit and heads off to a night club with her single friends. If you don't meet anyone right away, you will at least get a good workout.
I realize that these things cost money, but you will need to invest a little in order to hit the jackpot.
Read Glenda Goodwitch Article. How To Attract Quality Men, and Marry the One You Want
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